Conscious loving

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…ve done more than my fair share of stumbling (including one divorce) and at the age of 32 only now do I feel like I am "getting it". Nonetheless, I'd recommend the book _Conscious Loving_ by Gay and Kaithlyn Hendricks. Instead of the superficialities preached by the Venus books, etc they get to the heart of the matter by having us examine ourselves for personal projects, secrets that we are hiding and other subconscious developments that lay at the root of our psyche. We our worlds truly are in our head and our relationships are manifestations of those thoughts. I finally found a book that helps me peal back those layers and helped me figure out why I had been fucking up over so many years...

Kathlyn Hendricks, a relationship expert (_Conscious Loving_ is a fascinating book for the engineering mind dealing with relationships), offers this advice for when to leave a personal relationship (point 2 of the audio). Maybe it's applicable when pursuing ideas as well? http://www.hendricks.com/QA2 "Have you worked on the relationship so long that the amount of pain you feel overshadows the possibilities? Time to leave."